-Be more positive
I’ve been in a crummy mood for the last couple of days, I’m not entirely sure why. But for the past couple of weeks I’ve been in a really good mood. I need to figure out what inspires my good moods and triggers my bad ones so that I can better enjoy life.
-Be less critical- of myself and others
I’m learning to give myself a break when I do stupid things or screw up. I have a really bad habit of dwelling on stupid things that I do or say in social situations and making myself feel like an idiot over minor things that other people probably didn’t give a second thought to, and if they did they certainly don’t remember it within an hour or so or care nearly as much as I do. So I’m learning to forgive myself, which is making me less tense in social situations, which is helping me to say and do fewer stupid things and to laugh them off when I do.
-Support local businesses
I’m not sure if I did this today actually. I need to start asking if the businesses are locally owned or not. Vicki and I went to a bar called Kristopher’s in Downtown Matthews. It’s not a chain that I’ve ever heard of, so it could be locally owned I suppose. Other than that I didn’t do very well… I went to Starbucks when I could have gone to Coffee Works and I went to Target, but I don’t think they sell the shampoo that I use at any locally owned stores (but I can look into that!).
-Practice moderation in all areas of life
I stopped myself from buying silly things that I don’t actually need at Target today, including a super cute picnic basket. But I never go on picnics and I reminded myself of this, even though my first thought after that was that I should plan a picnic sometime soon!
-Eat less
This goes hand in hand with the above goal. I didn’t do very well with this at all today. I seem to be in a weird mood and the beers that I drank with Vicki didn’t help me to be any more mindful of my eating today. I was mindlessly stuffing my face with chips and bean dip. I wasn’t even hungry when dinner time rolled around, but my parents had fixed a plate for me so I ate. I felt really gross afterwards even though I didn’t finish everything on my plate. Even a couple of hours later I felt pretty sick and I’m just now starting to feel better.
-Exercise at least 4 days a week
Doing okay with this so far. I got a pretty good workout in at the gym yesterday. Did a bit of weight training followed by a decent cardio session. I downloaded some new music onto my iPod for exercising because my previous selection largely included Regina Spektor, Ben Folds and a number of other artists whom I love but don’t exactly provide a great beat for motivation while exercising. Pump It, by The Black Eyed Peas, is an excellent workout song though!
I was planning on going to the gym tonight, but mom and I went for a walk instead. We walked a full mile and we walked fast, so I’m willing to let it pass, but I’d like to be doing speed intervals more regularly and doing full body weight training. But all in all today wasn’t bad, however it didn’t make up for my bad eating decisions.
-Be more social
I went out to the bar with Vicki for happy hour. We both invited other people but none of them could make it. It was just as well since I wasn’t in the best mood, but at least I was willing to put forth the effort in case they did decide to come along. I need to expand my circle of friends though, so I need to be more open to new social situations.
-Help a person or animal each day
Well, I got coffee for Ashley at work today, but that’s not exactly to the level that I want my helpful deeds to be. I didn’t really encounter many opportunities for helping strangers or animals that aren’t mine, but I did take Pee-Wee for a walk! He really seems to enjoy this, so at least I made him happy!
-Buy less
I did okay with this today. I made a shopping list and I stuck to it at Target.
-Save more- At least 10% of all of the money I earn goes into savings.
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